5 Gentle Approaches to a Spicier Sex Life

A touch of kink beyond fuzzy handcuffs

Sex is my favorite thing to talk about, and anyone who is friends with me knows how comfortable I am with the subject. From jokes about me being a sex therapist to analyzing sexual personalities, I make it known that I’m the person you can do that with. I’ve had my fair share of experiences and experiments with achieving the most satisfactory sex life possible, so I typically have a viewpoint to share about a wide variety of subjects. It’s given me the opportunity to not only understand my own experiences, but to understand how my experiences carry over to different sexual personalities.

One of my favorite things to talk about with girlfriends is igniting the excitement back in the bedroom. I believe sexual wellness is vital to a healthy relationship (unless you are asexual, of course) and maintaining a sense of new can carry over into other aspects of your loving bond. Very few friends of mine have the sexual exploration bug on the same level as I do, but they still need advice on things they can try out to keep the bedroom fresh but also within their comfort zones. Luckily, comfort zones are a pretty big deal to me, so I came up with a list of five simple methods of introducing something potentially new without being over the top intense for new explorers.

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